By the numbers: 79% of respondents — college and graduate students around the country — said they don’t use any dating apps even as infrequently as once a month.

  • Wooster@startrek.website
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    8 months ago

    I suspect there are two key deterrents to using dating apps:

    1: Folks that are dating material ultimately leave the pool… leaving those that… aren’t. The longer the cycle continues the more undatable fill the population of date app users. So, by no fault of the dating app itself, the vast majority of potential dates suck.

    2: Then we get into the conflict of interest. Dating apps don’t want you to find your true love. They want engagement and subscription fees. It’s in their best interest to give you a substandard experience.

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      8 months ago

      The longer the cycle continues the more undatable fill the population of date app users.

      Your first assumption relies on the fact that the only way people leave dating apps is if they find a relationship.

      I would contend that the bigger group are those that have no luck on the apps and leave as it is a waste of time.

      This works better with your second assumption that I agree with. The apps don’t want you to be successful, they want you to reman on the platform. So finding an actual connection is not their goal.