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Cake day: June 21st, 2023

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  • Whenever I see something like this I feel I must defend my friend who’s a cop.

    Before being a cop he was a lifeguard at a beach and my bassist.

    Baywatch may tell you differently, but being a lifeguard is a seasonal job, and not a career. The next level of being a lifeguard is becoming a cop, so he did, and he has only beaten one black man so far.





  • I feel kinda bad for her.

    Regardless of being right or wrong, I can’t imagine having all the intimate details of a toxic relationship just be strewn about for the whole world to see in a media circus.

    Not saying she’s innocent by any means, she’s crazy, but so is Depp.

    If anyone has been in a deeply toxic relationship, it’s crazy how much your personality changes. After watching some of that ridiculous trial I had to stop. It started to remind me of my personal experiences with bad relationships. I never experienced anything that extreme, but I feel if time went on, it would not have been too far off.


  • Dude I remember seeing the first debate before going on a backpacking trip with my parents.

    My parents at the time I considered Republican, but not conservative. When they saw the debate they laughed and made jokes that the dude will never win.

    Then when I came closer to the election, they turned around. Thinking he was awesome and the answer to the “government” problem.

    Now, they aren’t hard-line Trump supporters, but their views have definitely changed towards being a lot more conservative. I’ve seen their stances change quite a bit since then.


  • I’m on the latter part of 30 and I’m in bumble and tinder. I decided to give myself a month on them and if nothing happens I’ll remove it. I’m not exactly on the prowl but I feel like I’ve given myself enough time to “work on myself” since my last relationship. So I’m testing the water. Also all my friends are all hitched or have kids, so there isn’t a lot of mutual single friends.

    It’s either, super model hot bot, or no thanks… There really isn’t an in-between. I understand that sounds shallow, but that’s been my experience. Then when you finally get matched no one actually makes conversation. Like I’m not going to sit here and try to drag a conversation out of you.

    You’re right too. The apps are also really only focused on just trying to get you to spend money, not getting you a match.

    Tinder for example says I have 20+ “matches” but I can’t see them unless I pay. And when I swipe it’s not like any of those people are put up front. You only get 20 likes and none of them will be the people that have “matched” with you.

    It’s also not cheap either. It’s like 20 dollars a month.

    Bumble is even worse.

    It’s a stark contrast from how it was several years ago.






  • Dude you hit the nail on the head right there. I’ve been thinking of installing Reddit back because some of the content I enjoyed there is just not here.

    Ive tried to recreate the subs I had on Reddit to here, but it’s empty. So I just browse All and block anything that has to do with politics, but it’s impossible because everything is just lefty politics in some way. Like I’m a liberal person, but I feel like I’m considered right leaning from some of the shit people say on here.

    And if I don’t have NSFW off it’s just trans everywhere.

    Like do what you wanna do, be who you wanna be, but I don’t wanna see THAT lol


  • You can be an introvert and be talkative, and you can be an extrovert and be shy.

    It’s all how you recharge your social battery.

    I consider myself to be an introvert, but I’m very talkative in social situations. Sometimes I can’t shut the fuck up. When I’m done hanging out though, I’m sitting in a dark room for a few days playing video games not hanging with anyone.

    I worked with a guy who drove 50 miles to come into the office just so he could be around people, but hardly said anything to anyone.







  • Rimworld is one of those games I’m addicted to for like 2 weeks non-stop.

    Then once I have 30 colonists and they can’t even keep the floor clean cuz I have too many things going on, I’m done because i know I’ll never “finish” anything. Even though every time I start that game I tell myself I’ll finally build the spaceship this time.