I hope my enby peeps can help me out here. I am very interested in exploring a
more feminine expression, but my starting point is masc-af physically, so
anything too feminine too quick is going to have a very hard contrast and I’m
definitely more of an “I don’t want to stick out much” kind of person. Any ideas
that may be more androgynous, but not attention grabbing that I can try out? I
am not good at picking outfits anyway, so I need all the help I can get. Like
beard and full body hair, so obviously lower cut stuff could be very dysmophic
atm. Maybe something that just feelsmore feminine but may not look it so much.
You know? Does this make sense?
So, I’ve found that V neck twill stuff in the right colors (green, dark blue, black) and “boyfriend shirts” help lean andro-fem, especially with jeans. In most areas, your average skinny jeans will go unnoticed unless embroidered with a fem design.
The reason I link the site is because if you’re on the taller side, a lot of standard sizes will fall short on the arms, in an awkward way.
Eyeliner, depending on area can be seen as middle of the road, especially if your general fashion leans into the emo/scene/goth aesthetic.
Jewelry helps, no need to start big, decorative bracelets of all sorts of fandoms, interests, and styles are out there, and generally inexpensive.
So, a favorite of mine is https://www.longtallsally.com/tops/shirts-blouses/c?f=t&sortby=pricelow
So, I’ve found that V neck twill stuff in the right colors (green, dark blue, black) and “boyfriend shirts” help lean andro-fem, especially with jeans. In most areas, your average skinny jeans will go unnoticed unless embroidered with a fem design.
The reason I link the site is because if you’re on the taller side, a lot of standard sizes will fall short on the arms, in an awkward way.
Eyeliner, depending on area can be seen as middle of the road, especially if your general fashion leans into the emo/scene/goth aesthetic.
Jewelry helps, no need to start big, decorative bracelets of all sorts of fandoms, interests, and styles are out there, and generally inexpensive.
Those are nice. I’m around average male height or slightly on the tall side, but it’s mostly torso, so that would probably be a perfect site.
A lot of those do look like something that may not stick out too much.